So, the story starts that I am dog-sitting for the next month for Jon, a man who works at CIMMYT. I moved in last Sunday to have a bit of a crossover with him and get to know the place and his dog. The house is beautiful, the dog is friendly, the town is cute and quite nice. He has a maid/nanny named Marcella and a gardener named Enrique, neither of whom speak English, and both of whom live in town and come around the house several times a week to do work. Jon assured me both were quite trustworthy and friendly people.
Well, the first morning I was in the house alone I was awoken to the gate-bell at about six am. I was groggy and tried to ignore it, but eventually I rise and answer the buzzer and hear Marcella at the gate. A bit early for me, but Jon wakes up at 4:30 each morning, and she must have thought I was a similar early riser. I had been staying in the guest house for my first two nights and had just moved into the main house. As I had the only set of keys to the guest house, I assumed she was ringing to ask for the keys so she could tidy up in there.
When I get to the gate, the Marcella is a bit distraught and rather than asking for house keys as I had expected, she relates that her boyfriend (a mysterious fellow who Jon hasn't met, but he had told me lives somewhere far away) has been in a bus accident in Veracruz. In broken Spanish, I attempt to be sympathetic, but eventually it gets around to her asking for money. She asks for 1000 pesos and says that she needs to send it to him for medical expenses. I am reluctant, but eventually decide that if Jon trusts this woman with keys to his house, car, and children, I can trust her with some money. She says on Saturday she will get me the money back. I obtain the cash, give it to her, and e-mail Jon the story.
Jon e-mails back, says it is quite odd, but that he trusts her. He is traveling but says he will give her a call on Friday to find out more details. I go on with my existence, but the next morning I am woken again. Marcella is at the gate, provides more details about the crash and the extent of the injuries. She asks for 700 more pesos, which I again, reluctantly, give her.
So, this morning rolls around and Jon calls me to confirm the details about what is going on, then he calls Marcella. Then he calls me back. Turns out that woman who had shown up at the gate was not in fact Marcella. Marcella and I had only met briefly on Monday morning and when a young Mexican woman who responds to me calling her Marcella shows up early on Wednesday morning, I figure it is indeed Marcella. So, Jon calls back Marcella, and then calls me back again, and Jon says that Marcella has said that that she had heard that someone in town has a loved one in the hospital. So, tomorrow morning, the real Marcella will be coming by at nine (possibly with the cousin in tow so I can meet her and try to sort thigns out). The woman who is not Marcella may or may not be coming back at six (am or pm is yet to be determined) to payback the loan. And for the meantime, I am thoroughly confused. The total money comes out to $157 US... so if this woman is never to be heard from again, it's not an enormous loss... but it's still a chunk of cash.
It's funny because potentially there is nothing shady here at all. A woman came to the door and asked for money and I gave it to her. She never fronted that she was anything besides who she was. It was
I who first called
her Marcella... and perhaps she explained that she was not who I thought she was and I just didn't understand her. This could be nothing more than a strange situation with a lots of miscommunication. I still feel hopeful.
When traveling for fourteen months, you are bound to be ripped off eventually. Whether this is that time, I don't know. When you only sort-of speak a language you are inherently distrustful of others - but you spend a lot of energy trying not to think the worst of people. Sometimes that attempt at trusting the other is misplaced... and you get taken for a ride.
So, a friend from work who speaks English and Spanish is going to stay the night this evening and be prepared to help act as translator at six and/or nine. In case the woman comes at six pm, I have invited some friends over for dinner and to act as translator then. And I still have to write a lot about wheat by the end of the day.
More to be posted when I know it.
Update 1: Saturday, 7 July: 11:00pm:Umm... I am not too surprised to be reporting that no one miraculously showed up this evening to repay their loans. Speaking with Marcela this morning provided a bit of comfort - and though she had some possible leads, she didn't sound too optimistic about my prospects either. More when it is known.
Update 2: Sunday, 8 July: 8:15pmSo, this evening Marcela and I paid a visit to the theorized loan recipient and were able to confirm her identity. Better yet, apparently she does occasional work for CIMMYT and Marcela was able to hint that if the loan isn't repaid tomorrow there's a good chance my superiors would hear about it and not be happy. So, she seemed to backtrack a bit and said that tomorrow at six the loan shall be repaid. Will it? Only time will tell, but promising progress.
Update 3: Sunday, 8 July: 8:36pmJust after I press 'publish post' on the last entry, the gate buzzer rings. It's the woman wanting to have a talk with me one-on-one (actually, her son was there too, but I think the more important part was that Marcela wasn't there.) She talks at me for a minute and a half, and says she spoke with her father and she won't be able to get the money back by Monday. Quite fortuitously, I see through the cracks of the gate Marcella walking past. I say this, and invite Marcela in, to which the LoanLady is rather displeased. Marcela and the loan lady speak for twenty minutes with lots of back peddling by Loanlady and lots of explaining that I don't speak Spanish very well by Marcela and I. With Marcela there she seems afraid to say she won't have the money tomorrow, and every time she hints at it, Marcella tells her that the money needs to come back. So, tomorrow I am bringing a translator home with me and we're going to all chat again - and hopefully get some money back.
Update 4: Monday, 9 July: 8:47pmMet with the woman today, she said the money was transferred today and she would be getting it from the bank tomorrow. We almost took it to the police, but ultimately I decided, after hearing many stories of unpleasant experiencing to the police in Mexico, that we would give it one more day before going through the hassle of talking to the cops. Tomorrow, tomorrow.
Update 5: Tuesday, 10 July: 8:05pm:Well, I can't say that I am surprised - she showed, no money, asked for another day. I told her (in English and in Spanish) I didn't want excuses and that tomorrow we're reporting her to the authorities. She tried to say she would have the money by tomorrow, I told her 'whatever.'
On the bright side, I saw my first wild tarantula (I actually almost stepped on it) today while hiking. It was pretty sweet. Mañana, mañana.
Update 6: Wednesday, 11 July: 7:35pmSo, I headed to the office of the village government where Kate (my friend and trusty translator), Marcela, and I reported the unpaid debt. The village official took down the information, will issue a summons, and we will have an official meeting on Saturday morning at 10am. He was happy to relate that the same woman had bothered him, and several members of his family, for money in the past. He said that no one usually gave her money, but when they did, it was not seen again. He thought it quite humorous that she had the chutzpah to ask to this gringo for such large sums and then not pay out.
So, we will meet in the public building on Saturday, but she will get two more chances at responding if she doesn't show then. From there, nothing automatically happens, but if I would like to take it to the municipal government in Texcoco (the bigger town around here) I can, and I will have this as official testament.
Perhaps we will not need to get that far because after going to the town government, we stopped by Loanlady's house to talk to Loanlady's mother. I am not sure how old Loanlady is, but she has several children, and I would estimate around thirty; her mother around sixty. Never in my life have I seen a thirty year old woman so shamed in front of her mother. Though Loanlady has told us that she had been in dialog with her parents about this matter, from the reaction, she certainly hadn't. Her mom seemed genuinely horrified that her daughter had done this. So, to avoid the date with the official folks, Loanlady's mom said that they would be coming by my place on Friday at six to pay things back.
Apparently reporting things to the town council has no teeth except for that of gossip - which seeing how this woman's mother reacted, might be enough. Whether or not the money comes back, it did feel a bit satisfying to see this woman at least show some remorse that might have been genuine - and maybe social pressures will keep her from fraudulent requests in the future.
(As a side note, so I don't seem too heartless, this woman does not seem too in need of money - the house has two cars, is relatively large, and she wears a diamond ring. I don't feel like asking for my money back would be taking food from her childrens' mouthes.)
Update 7: Saturday 14 July: 9:31am:Just a half an hour before the big meeting with the municipal government was to happen, the Loanlady shows at my door - with 1700 pesos in hand. I didn't think it would actually happen - but it finally did - thanks probably to her mother standing behind her with crossed arms. An epic conclusion to the tale of how Nathan Leamy almost lost a chunk of cash - but through persistence and the help of his kindly and resourceful maid he was able to regain a bit of self-respect and cash. Huzzah.